me i'm still tryin' to
relax enough to take off.
me i'm still tryin' to
relax enough to take off.
### - smile @ this coming from the 'dude' who went WILD in the hot-tub one time without even trying??
iow: i think you obviously already know how to relax enough, and to
precisely what degree...
relaxing isn't your problem... letting-go is?
so relax enough-enough already... and then just let go!
and see what, if anything, happens?
technically you already 'know' what to do, and exactly how to do it!
some 'inner-part' of you certainly does! (thrice already!)
you just haven't done so 'deliberately' is all... that's where you're
getting stuck
haven't deliberately abandoned (or let go of) yourself, so it's seemed
like an accident each time/were slightly distracted...
mastery of/over it, being the direct corollary of being able to 'deliberately' turn it all on/off at will, something that only comes
later... iow: you maybe have to have that 'attitude' towards it all as
though you been doin' it all your life kinda thing to somehow let that
part of you out that already knows how to do this do it's work...
maybe don't 'try' so hard then and just let it happen, reaching a little farther every time
and 'coz whatever it is you're trying it ain't working, or is actually working against it...
here's a suggestion: 'know' you know how and just 'expect' it to happen! :)
and with minimal relaxation too (no need to make such a big deal outta relaxing i mean, especially after having had a little sleep as with using wbtb)
and good luck :)
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